Don't use the word problem. Problems generally
have one solution. If you see challenges, you are not trapped in the
mindset of one problem, one solution.
- All challenges are not
created equal. So, don't try a one-size fits all approach.
- Consider other
people's ideas. They may be able to offer some insight.
- Don't force others to
earn your respect. Just give it to them.
- How you treat others
is a reflection on how you treat yourself.
- No matter what you do,
act with sincerity.
- Relationships such as
marriage and divorce are not life changing events. They are
choices. If you want to fix the relationship, then evaluate your role and
discover what need it fulfills. Do your part, and try not to do
the other person's.
- A life-changing event
leaves you with little recourse but to change. If you chose not
to change, you risk of emotional, mental, or even energetic distress.
- Have you become
disabled? That is not the end of life, as you know
it. You can either treat your disability as your friend, or
your enemy. Which means, you can either work with it, or
against it. Either way, chances are it's not going away.
- Anybody can do
nothing. So, ask yourself, are you just anybody?
- The difference between
balance and harmony is the flow of energy. If you want to
maintain a balance, you need to maintain equal portions of negative and
positive energy flow. If you want to live in harmony, then
allow positive and negative energy to move through your life without
impediment. A flow of harmony is self-correcting and
progressive. A flow of balance is a separation of energy and
stagnating.
- Your passions can
rescue you from a life of dullness. Explore them
- Mastermind groups are
people of like minds, like goals, and support each other. Find one or
start. This can be as easy as meeting with a few people and talk about
your goals and what you want to do to achieve them
- A good support system
will encourage you towards success. A poor one will tell you, why bother.
- Can't find any support? If you
don't have reliable friends or family, try your local religious
institution or organization, check your local listings for groups,
hire a therapist or a life-coach.
- Fear should not be considered a negative emotion. Fear
tells us something is wrong. The only way to allay fear is to discover
what is fearful.
- Attitude is important. Your attitude is your energy
amplifier. Be mindful of what you are amplifying.
- Only one person in the world knows exactly what is going
on with you. That is not your spouse, not your friends, and not your
family. It's you. Only you can change what is happening. Get help, get
information, get whatever you need the best way you can get it.
- Don't feel confident about what you're doing? You can
fake it 'til you make it. Before you know it, you are the role model for
others.
- If you want to become a leader, you must not only
empower others , you must empower yourself as well.
- When challenges arise that fill you with fright, step
into them and discover what you need to succeed.